A Note: Love Yourself

For those single gals like me, work on yourself first before you enter a relationship. Make sure you are balanced and centered so you know what you want and what you deserve.

Loving yourself changes who you attract.

 Most people have a fear that something great won't enter their life, trust me I've been there and it went through my mind many times, sometimes it still does but I know what God has for me is greater than what I can imagine have faith in time being perfect because that's when we settle and accept mediocrity. Just because time was wasted or spent years in relationships that there isn't hope for greatness. You know what I have a lot of HOPE I always think of Charlotte from Sex and The City it's a show yes but her character was fun the hopeless romantic and the desire she had for love to never give up and wait for great love.

Know that change starts with you, send the energy signal that you deserve the best in your life by taking the right action and disconnecting from negativity or someone who doesn't value their word. Stop trying to force connections that aren't all there, or telling yourself that maybe the reason love isn't happening for you is that expectations are too high. It's not unrealistic to desire a partner that is attentive to your needs and wants, and who puts in the effort to not only get to know you but keep you happy and feeling secure.

Oh, have I learned the ropes of loving me all the way from the moment I wake-up with no make-up and watching my self in the mirror to the confidence I 've t gain step by step learning to love everything about my self including who I am and accepting me inside out.

Some people aren't ready to grow or discover themselves on a deeper level. We shouldn't waste your time on surface connections. Ask yourself and see what kind of people you attract. Remember everyone in your life is a reflection of where you are. They are here to show you your current state. Don't get upset, get better and thank them for showing you that you deserve better.

Stop chasing dates or guys, the right one, the one you prayed for will come and show you he belongs in your life and will come to stay without force. Many of you have sent me DM's most army wives who have followed me since I started my blog and ask me about Love and questions like will I fall in love again. I know I will but I'm not chasing it, what I do recommend if you are single or had a break-up or waiting for the one is that you focus on bettering yourself. When you're not growing as a person, you will try to hold on to what's familiar even when it's unhealthy for you.

You don't have to be hurt wondering, overthinking and living confusion when all it takes is turning the attention back to your own growth.

I have learned so much in 3 years the process of change which once you get to the point where you're done hurting, forcing, and even trying to keep your past together, a beautiful thing happens; something called surrendering. You let go and allow the change to happen in your life. You're no longer focused on things outside yourself to fulfill you. You go within to discover your inner strengths, beauty, light, and everything about you.

Now that you love yourself and feel whole again like I do just wait and be patient and see how you attract others to yourself will be completely different, you're no longer sending an insecure signal, but rather the energy of strength, awareness, LOVE, and kindness. This kind of energy will attract people who are a similar path of self-discovery as yourself, ones who respect and admire your light, the light you reflect when you Love Yourself.

Don't forget to Love Yourself.

Thanks for reading.

xo Martha Luna.